Travelling with illnesses: I learnt to be kind

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If you’ve been reading my blog already, you might know that I’ve been on a volunteer trip recently, and it’s led me to explore the murky depths of travelling when chronically ill.

Unfortunately, past me decided it would be a good idea to book a very expensive and very challenging journey to the other side of the world, without considering that I had a year to wait before I could go. Now, all things considered, a year isn’t a very long time. When you have to fundraise £2000, a year is positively miniscule. On the other hand, a year is also a helluva long time for someone with a chronic illness, and a lot can happen over a few months. For example, I didn’t expect that my fibro would stop me from completing my last three modules at university, or that it would leave me bed bound for weeks on end. In hindsight, I should have known something would happen.

Anyway, all things considered, I still went through with it, because I’d put a lot of time and money into getting there and there was no way I was giving up so close to the end.

It made me realise, though, that there were a lot of people who would do anything for the opportunity that I had, and that I shouldn’t pass it up so easily.

Getting to my destination, I also realised that there were loads of people who don’t even have half of the life that I have back at home when I’m being miserable. It just goes to show, I might be suffering, but there are millions of others out there who are all different yet all still suffering in their own way. It is important to remember that there are others out there who also need help.  And sometimes, it makes sense to stop for a moment and do them a favour, even if it is just to hold open a door or make a cup of coffee for someone.

Your actions could potentially make someone else’s day a lot brighter.

so please, if you’re thinking of telling someone that they look nice today, or if you have some spare change as you walk by that homeless guy on your way home, please follow your impulses and do it. You never know, you just might change a life.

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Travelling with illnesses: what I was told.

Help for sufferers, Posts, Travel, Travelling with illnesses series

So I’ve got an apology to make. I haven’t posted anything in over two weeks. This is partly because I have been suffering (more on that soon), but also because I’ve been jetsetting.

For the last two weeks, I’ve been in a beautiful little country called Laos, making an attempt to help those less fortunate than me. Not only has it been one of my lifelong goals to travel, but spending time there helped me to improve who I am as a person, and truly push my limits to the max.

Of course, traveling with fibro, or indeed any other chronic disability, can be a bit of a challenge. Whether it be the plane journey, the climate differences, or the new activities; travelling can be a pain (literally!).

Throughout the next week, I’m going to be sharing a little about what I did over in Laos, along with giving some helpful tips for you to remember the next time you’re abroad.

In the meantime, here are a few suggestions I was given whilst away, that you might like to try out for yourself…

1. Be mindful.

I was told that one of the most important parts of looking after your body involves being able to listen to what it has to tell you.

Next time you have a quiet five minutes, get yourself comfy and listen. Start by breathing slowly and deeply, counting your breaths and feeling your body relax as you do. Then, focus on each part of your body, starting at your toes and working up to your head, and allow yourself to feel what’s going on there. Forget about your stress, forget about the outside world, just focus on you. Once you reach the top of your crown, allow your mind to accept and then let go of those feelings, and then concentrate back on your breathing.

This time, try and empty your mind, and allow any new thoughts, feelings, or worries to float through your mind and be let go. Spend a few moments like this, allowing your mind and body to relax and push aside any mental or physical problems for the moment.

2. Get a massage.

Sometimes, having a massage can really help you to relax, and what better way is there to treat yourself than to soothe your body and ease any achy muscles? Next time you have some spare cash, book yourself in to your local spa; or if you prefer to spend a little less, get a close friend or family member to spend some time with you for a pamper evening, where you can help each other.

3. Try yoga.

Personally, I haven’t had the chance to properly test this one out yet, but loads of people have told me that it is worth the effort.

Start simple and spend five minutes each day stretching out your body and focusing on breathing exercises. As you adjust, build up your routine to focus on longer, more complicated yoga positions. If you need inspiration, just try searching your fave social media for some yoga advice, as it is a popular hobby that is widely available online.

Do you have any advice you’d like to share, or an idea to try? Or, maybe you have something to say about what I’ve shared? Let us know what you think in the comments below, and don’t forget to like and share if you enjoyed this read!

Thanks guys!